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Forum: Love & Sex
 alcoholic bf?
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cm86
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14-March-2010 20:06
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i think my bf might be an alcoholic. whenever i raise the topic he says he just enjoys unwinding and a drink after work. both families have come to me saying i need to do something about it. but if he is in denial what do i do? i cant make him change his mind. do i just wait for the crash?
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Mel1985
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16-March-2010 21:20
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It depends on what kind of drinking he's doing. I've lived with someone who was an alcoholic and it's not a nice experience. There are a number of 'signs' that he might be an alcoholic. Firstly does he drink alone? Does he sneak off and get so drunk that he passes out. Can he control his drinking? As in does he know when to stop. Keep in mind that some people just like getting drunk and aren't good at stopping, That doesn't make them an alco. If he's coming home and having a few drinks
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Mel1985
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16-March-2010 21:23
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that's fine, as long as it doesn't affect you. Also what kind of drunk is he? you don't want to be at the other end of a fist if he's a mean drunk. If he's stupid and dangerous when he's drunk you need to tell him and explain to him that you don't want that. As for his family telling you to fix him, it's not your responsibility to take care of their child. If he is a raging, violent drunk I suggest getting out of the relationship and walking away. If you are conviced that he is an alco, you
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