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Question:

Every time I start getting close with a guy I freak out and find the smallest things I don’t like about them in order to get rid of them. How do I learn to not pick at the small things? from Bree

Answer:

It might be that you’re simply afraid of commitment. Or it might be that you just haven’t found the right guy yet! If small things are annoying you from the outset, they’re only going to get worse as the relationship progresses. So it’s important for you to find someone you think you can stick around for the long haul. On the other hand, perhaps you should learn to stop being so picky!

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  • I used to be like that with every guy.. But once i found the right guy I havent felt like that at all. You just havent found the right one.
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  • Try to look at the good things about him instead of negitive things if they really aren't that bad. You are afraid of commitment and if you want a relationship you need to try to over come it. I understand i was like that 2. You can't start a date thinking he may break your heart, not every guy is like that.
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  • Remember - a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. That means that u have absolutely no need of a male at all. Obviously u don't want sex. So no need 4 a male. Ur female companions will understand u much better so no need 4 a male at all. Men r pathetic at communicating and usually speak in grunts like apes. They won't do half the housework just bcoz u don't earn half the income. The only reason a male wants u is 2 use u 4 sex. Males r violent creatures. etc
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  • Lets face it Bree, your a bitch! You dont deserve the company of a man until you grow up. In the interim, just stick with your girlfriends and continue to read your dolly mags. If anyone knows this clown in real like, slap some bloody sense into her
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  • I was like this too!!! After I broke up with my bf of 3 years every guy I dated I found something wrong with them & the more I tried to make it work with them the more I got turned off. When I found the right one though all of that disappeared. My bf has his faults (as we all do) but I still love him more than anything. Give it time & keep dating. You will find him.
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