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I'm almost 21 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never even really had a guy friend, except for casual acquaintances. I hardly ever meet new guys - a bar just doesn't work for me. What can I do? from Carrie

Answer:

Carrie – your name doesn't live up to your Carrie Bradshaw reputation! But don't fret – many women who are 21 are only just beginning to explore relationships with men. Start going out on dates with blokes who are mutual acquaintances or that your friends have set you up with. Start getting comfortable with men and befriending as many as you can. The best way to find a man is to hang around with them so don't be shy and let your feminine wiles stand out!

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Comments (12)

  • I think the best advice anyone can give you is to not worry about it and just have fun being single. I've been in your position and I know the feelings aren't too nice when they hit. If it's any consolation, I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and I'm 25. Before him, there wasn't anyone else.
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  • I think you should just enjoy life with friends etc and stop looking for a relationship, and one day the right man will come along. But sitting at home doesn't work either just go out and have fun.
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  • to echo the sentiments of the above comments, boyfriends aren't everything. when you're single, you can go out with your friends whenever and have fun, run life on your own schedule and not worry about the inevitable dramas that boys seem to bring with them. bars aren't my thing either, maybe you could start volunteering for a cause that you are passionate about - you could meet someone that is really compassionate and has similar interests to you.
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  • Lppk at that Scottish woman who can sing. She is in her 50's and hasn't even been kissed. Nothing wrong with her. And she is so happy and care free bcoz she has never had a man. Why would u want a man any way? Listen 2 ur feminist sisters and stay away from the brutes. The only reason u want a man is as a trophy 2 display 2 ur gf's and 2 pay the bills neither of which u really need so forget blokes & b happy
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  • TO GINO & PATRIARCHY: wtf is wrong with you two?? seriously dikes you are. this poor girl is asking info on how to get back into the game and your spinning her ****. batting for the other team? unappealing? what the hell is wrong with you. this girl is prob way more beautiful and kind then you'll ever be put together!!!
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